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Are you a woman struggling with libido?
TURN ON DESIRE IN
JUST ONE HOUR
Even if you feel unsexy, your love life has gone missing, and you're suffering from pain (or other effects of hormone depletion).
Here's the problem...
You know more desire could bring your spark back and help you find lost intimacy. But… Finding a remedy feels so hard, even impossible!
Let's face it: Life has brought you changes that have altered your desire.
Changes like anxiety, depression, stressful circumstances, extra weight you don't like, less energy, bad sleep, pesky genital pain...Plus, these big obstacles!
As Seen Here:
You Deserve Pleasure!
No matter what your struggling with when it comes to menopause and physical intimacy, here's some extraordinary news...
Libido is a skill that can be taught.
Just like riding a bike or a horse (Sorry! I couldn’t resist the innuendo.)
I know it's a skill because I’ve been where you are.
Give me an hour and I’ll teach you desire.
“The libido lab was like a magic switch that renewed the light inside me!”
Workshop Participant
Yes, there is a way to FEEL DESIRE without getting a new body—or lover :)
It's not complicated either. There are only three steps:
Awaken
Most of us who struggle with desire have a sensuality that has merely gone to sleep. So the first step in this process is locating that precious part of ourselves. Then, we give it a reason to wake up.
Reimagine
When we turn down lovemaking, what are we really rejecting? Often, it's someone else's agenda for pleasure. Reimagining sex, our next step, helps you discover your OWN experience of pleasure, which may look different than Hollywood scenes, a partner's desires, or how it was for you in the past.
Empower
The last step is taking your pleasure knowledge and putting it on the table, so to speak. You'll learn how to work with yourself, and/or a partner, to reorganize lovemaking so it fits your present-day body, and your moment-to-moment mood. In this way you find power to make things spicy—for you!
The thing is...
Forcing yourself to want the sex being offered, after a stressful day, doesn't work! This kind of intimacy IS undesirable, but that doesn't mean there's not something you crave...
You don't need to remake your body, psyche, or partnership. You just need someone to give you a roadmap for finding your own authentic libido, so you can access the stress reduction, closeness, skin hunger, orgasms, and love you truly want. Action, on your own terms.
Hi, I’m Laura Zam...
xo, Laura
..bestselling author, TEDx speaker, relationship coach, sexuality educator, and wellness trainer.
I created The Libido Lab because you deserve to know crucial information about sexuality that no one talks about.
The sad truth is we are not taught the intricacies of sexual desire. We think we either have libido, or we don’t. And if we once had it, if desire now seems like a distant memory, we think it’s disappeared for good. Having gone through this experience myself, and also as a Certified Sexuality Educator (CSE) and Certified Holistic Sex Educator (CHSE), I know this is simply not true.
I'm a wife who never had a strong libido—but cultivated one at the age of 50! You see, I discovered there were secrets to craving and having great sex, and maintaining it for life. Secrets that could be easily taught, even if a person had severe complications like I had. My complications included 3 different kinds of pelvic pain, problems with arousal and orgasms, and a history of sexual trauma.
I built my libido and great sex from ground zero. And I’ve helped thousands of women do the same, through my bestselling book The Pleasure Plan (which documents my journey) as well as through my coaching, articles, and media appearances.
I’d love to help you too!
Introducing
The Libido Lab
Learn how to have sexual interest and desire, despite your own complications, including menopause, inexperience, body image issues, relationship stagnation, high stress, and loss of attraction for a mate.
You'll learn...
SECRET 1
Why having no libido is normal (Pssst, there’s nothing wrong with you!)
SECRET 2
The 5 ingredients of desire no one talks about
SECRET 3
Why most problems around desire are rooted in some form of power struggle
SECRET 4
The one thing you need to understand about dopamine (our main sex motivator)
SECRET 5
How to summon a craving for sex anytime, anywhere
Lesson 1
Cultivate Healthy Hedonism
Learn the truth about libido—why there’s nothing wrong with you! You’ll master techniques for slowing down and receiving pleasure. Not sure how to get out of your head, or fully let go? Let me show you.
Lesson 2
Awaken Your Sleeping Sensuality, Easily
Awaken a sleeping sensuality—no matter how long she’s been dormant! Get secrets about dopamine that help you collaborate with this BFF motivator.
Lesson 3
Understand the Door to Desire
(and How to Open it)
You’ll discover your own Desire Doorway, a portal you can enter to get turned on anytime, anywhere. You’ll also finally understand the relationship between power and desire.
Lesson 4
Create Your Own Arousal Cocktail
Create your own arousal formula—what YOU need to get fully turned on. Draw from essential ingredients rarely discussed. Solve problems like boredom with sex and not being strongly attracted to your partner. Uncover techniques for navigating pelvic pain and trauma, too
Lesson 5
Make Love with Full Libido
Get clear on how to maximize pleasure with your partner(s), balancing your wants with all they bring to the bedroom.
Plus This Big Bonus!
Discounted Coaching
While supplies last, 20% discount on individual 60-minute session that customizes your learning and experience!
Here are some bonuses, too!
The modules alone will help you achieve your goals.
However, pleasure issues can present themselves as you're going through your journey.
So in addition to everything inside of The Libido Lab, I’m happy to throw in 3 bonuses to give you a kickstart to pleasure, intimacy, and fun!
Sexual Communication Style Quiz
Yes! Yoga Technique (Class)
Guide to Hot Menopausal Sex
FAQs
Does getting a libido only take an hour, or do I need more time?
The course is designed so that you can go through all the videos (the main training content) in one hour! For those who want to grasp the concepts in a short amount of time, this course is the perfect solution. You'll have the option of viewing the webinar in full, or watching the videos in smaller chunks you can pace as you wish. Whichever you choose, to maximize the benefit of the course, you’ll want to implement what you learned by practicing the accompanying activities, outlined in the workbook. This allows you to experiment, customize, and rewire your erotic self. Students usually take anywhere from one week to several months to fully experience this transformation.
How can I get personalized attention?
For those wanting more guidance, I offer a limited number of coaching slots per month. I also discount a single session for people signing up for the course. You'll have this option at check-out.
What if I'm a hopeless case?
I hear you! I felt that way too about my own life and obstacles before I began my sexual healing. Here's what's important to know: the framework and tools I provide help you better understand sexual desire and pleasure. They also inspire you to redesign sex so that it authentically excites you. Too many times people think they have low libido when they just don't know that the way they feel is normal, and also that there are ways to customize erotic experiences so that they are truly exciting.
What if I have physical issues?
The Libido Lab is designed to help you activate a sensual and erotic connection to your own body--and also to a partner, if you have one. This connection can be made regardless of physical issues or limitations. The reason is that a sensual/erotic connection is not based on having to perform any particular activity. It is based on tapping into what your body authentically likes. Your body is designed to like certain things, and not other things. Your body is designed to move, automatically, toward that which pleases you.
What if I experience depression?
Depression can certainly affect our libido, as can certain anti-depressants.If you have mild to moderate depression, sexual activity (or even just sexy thoughts and feelings) are an evidence-based way to boost the happy hormones needed for healing. If you have severe depression, see below.* If you're on anti-depressants that alter libido, the course is a perfect fit as it teaches you to expand your experience (and concept) of arousal and desire. *If you have severe depression, this course is not recommended, as you may not have enough motivation, or access to dopamine. Best to recover a bit more and then sign up.
More Praise From Coaching Clients
Laura is the real deal. She has learned a lot about herself, but also about women's bodies and what women generally need. She shares her experience and knowledge with candor, kindness, humor and humility. I can honestly say this course has woken me up and set me on a new path of learning and curiosity about myself and what could be possible for me.
B.L., Workshop Participant
I was able to reach a milestone because of the assistance I got from Laura and this course.
M.K., Workshop Participant
I've done a lot of personal work with emotions and attachment in my relationship but clear and concrete guidance around sex was missing. Laura's class is the missing piece. I now have a path to expanding my sexual pleasure with myself first and with my husband, for sure!'
Christine, Workshop Participant
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