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Are you a woman who struggles with sex?
Unlock Your Sensual Potential
It's time to realize what's possible!
What if you could find erotic transformation in 8 weeks...
(Even if you feel really stuck and don’t know where to begin)
Imagine letting go of low desire, fear that you’re broken, feeling like you’re not a sexual person.
Empower your sensual self!
As Seen Here:
Here's the problem...
You just don’t feel like a sexual person.
But you’d like to!
You might be struggling with low desire, shame, lacking knowledge about your own pleasure, confusing experiences with doctors/therapists, mysterious pain, maybe some past trauma...
Maybe you’ve tried moving forward, but you’ve run into roadblocks like:
Lack of Desire
You might have once been frisky as all get out. Or maybe you never developed that side. Either way, you're not interested!
Attraction Issues
If you're partnered, you might have lost initial lust. Or, you never had strong chemistry with this person, and now it's a huge problem.
Confusing Information
You've tried getting help, maybe from your doctor and/or mental health professional, but the information you've gotten is so conflicting!
Imagine if it didn't have to be this way...
Imagine being sexually alive without getting a new body. Or lover :)
Imagine overcoming issues like:
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Low libido
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Inexperience
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Years (decades) of sexual draught
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Menopausal changes
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Painful penetration
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Triggers
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Sexual shame
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Orgasm difficulty
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Vaginismus, vulvodynia, and other pelvic issues
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Complications associated with cancer treatments
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Relationship malaise
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Depression/SSRI complications
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Poor body image
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Something unique to your body/life
You deserve pleasure...
You deserve pleasure, no matter what you’re struggling with, no matter what's already taken place!
And guess what?
Unlocking your sensual self is a simple process.
It’s as simple as moving toward chocolate, walks in nature, or dresses with pockets!
See? You’re already wired for pleasure. You just need a guide to help you access this wiring, sexually.
Meet Your Course Guide
Hi, I’m Laura
I created The Libido Lab because you deserve to know crucial information about sexuality that no one talks about.
The sad truth is we are not taught the intricacies of sexual desire. We think we either have libido, or we don’t. And if we once had it, if desire now seems like a distant memory, we think it’s disappeared for good. Having gone through this experience myself, and as a sexual solutions coach, I know this is simply not true.
As a wife who never had a strong libido—but cultivated one at the age of 50(!), I discovered there were secrets to craving and having great sex, and maintaining it for life.Secrets that could be easily taught, even if a person had severe complications like I had. My complications included 3 different kinds of pelvic pain, problems with arousal and orgasms, and a history of sexual trauma.
I built my libido and great sex from ground zero. And I’ve helped thousands of women do the same, through my bestselling book The Pleasure Plan (which documents my journey) as well as through my coaching, articles, and media appearances.
I’d love to help you too!
I thoroughly enjoyed Unlocking Your Sensual Potential. Trust was important in this work of enhancing habits of pleasure, and I trusted Laura implicitly. Not only that, I felt her enthusiasm scoop me up & deliver me into a juicy dive toward the pleasures of life.
Amy T.
You CAN Unlock Your Sensual Potential, and it’s not complicated.
In fact, there are only three steps!
Reimagine
Learn the truth about libido—why there’s nothing wrong with you! You’ll master techniques for slowing down and receiving pleasure. Not sure how to get out of your head, or fully let go? Let me show you.
Empower
Claiming pleasure starts with discovering what authentically delights us, and turns us on. Discovery and permission to have these great feelings are acts of empowerment.
Implement
Once we reimagine and empower ourselves with pleasure know-how, we're ready to bring this knowledge into partnered and solo adventures. This means safe and skillful ways of bringing partners, and our selves, into a sensual future of continued growth.
The thing is...
Staying sexually stuck undermines our relationships and self-esteem. But you don’t need years of therapy to get unstuck.
You just need someone who’s been where you are (and helped thousands) to give you a roadmap for becoming sexually alive--now and for the rest of your life.
What's included?
Module 1:
Discover Your Sensual Potential/Goal
We'll begin with an overall vision for where you want to go, in terms of passion, intimacy, and erotic aliveness. In other words, your potential. Next, you'll identify a transformative YES! goal for our 8 weeks together. In this way, your journey will produce measurable results.
You'll walk away with:
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How to use your Pleasure Plan Journal—for vision, goals, and life-long development.
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A customized yoga practice (appropriate for all bodies) that increases vibrancy while decreasing stress
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The power of dopamine to reveal our truth
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How to cultivate an authentic
YES—in all aspects of your life.
Don't worry if you're unclear or shaky on your YES goal as you begin the program. I'll help you find, and refine, this goal.
Module 2:
Awaken Sleeping Sensual Possibilities
Fully realized sensuality is dormant in most women. Waking up, and developing this part of ourselfs, enriches our lives with deep colors, thrilling sparks, and the miraculous grounding of our own bodies.
You'll walk away with:
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The critical difference between sensuous, sensual, and sexual
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A feminine model of mindfulness that turbocharges confidence
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Why most low libido diagnoses are wrong
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How to get turned on any time you want
Module 3:
Navigate Resistance
NO is a given when we're stuck. But plastering a big smiley face over resistance doesn't work! Rather than platitudes or superficial solutions, you'll learn how to respect and work with your NO, so it organically balances with your desire.
You'll walk away with:
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How to deconstruct resistance, obstacles, and skepticism
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Ways to use NO as a diagnostic tool
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How to distinguish between healthy boundaries and fear-based avoidance
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30 mojo motivators—effective ways of getting in the mood
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A powerful method of managing ambivalence in all areas of life
Module 4:
Reimagine Sex, Pleasure, and Intimacy
In this lesson, we radically redefine lovemaking so that it now works for our body, inspiring a craving for lovemaking.
You'll walk away with:
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How to optimize pleasure by understanding the little-known female erectile network
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What Tapas Sex is, and why it will change your life
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How to piece together a sexual experience that's delicious from start to finish
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Ways to negotiate pleasure with your lover on a moment-to-moment basis (you'll practice this too, if you're partnered)
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The difference between different erotica on the market, and how they could give you the YES you're seeking
Module 5:
Find YOUR Sexual Solution
In this module, you'll discover—and implement—a solution for the specific obstacle(s) you're facing in the bedroom.
You'll walk away with:
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How to enhance desire
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How to optimize arousal
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Tricks for transitioning into lovemaking
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What to do about exhaustion and chronically not being in the mood
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A step-by-step guide to orgasm, or greatly enhanced orgasm
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Ways to deal with triggers
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Work-arounds for pelvic pain
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How to feel beautiful and sexy
Module 6:
Communicate with Current and Prospective Partners
In Module 5, we focus on communicating our needs to partners.
You'll walk away with:
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How to prepare our partners for sexual conversations
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A gentle, disarming technique for getting our partners to be receptive to our needs/desires
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The two-part sex conversation, and why it's essential
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When and when not to have these conversations
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Specific talking points and scripts you can use to increase your confidence and courage in having these delicate conversations.
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Strategies for minimizing partner defensiveness, and optimizing receptivity
Module 7:
Rewire for Life-Long Eros
Getting unstuck means paving pleasure pathways in our brain and body. In this way, the vitality your discover in this course can be continued forever.
You'll walk away with:
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Why 60 minutes once a week (all alone) can give you the healing you've been looking for
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Easy activities you can do everyday to keep Eros healthy and strong
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What Healing Antidotes are, and how you can use them
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A way to carve out an extra 60-90 minutes a day, without changing anything
Module 8:
Finalize your Sustainable Pleasure Plan
The Pleasure Plan is your roadmap moving forward in your new, shining relationship with your body and partner(s). It contains the knowledge, activities, reminders, and structure for continued sexual happiness and health.
You'll walk away with:
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Ways to use your Pleasure Plan on a daily and weekly basis
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How to get immediately unstuck by using your plan, should you fall into old patterns
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How to include partners in your Pleasure Plan
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How to augment your plan with new learning and discoveries
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How to create a parallel Plan you can use for your relationship(s)
Even More Bonuses:
The modules alone will help you achieve your goals.
However, pleasure and healing issues can present themselves as you’re on your journey.
So, in addition to everything inside Unlock Your Sensual Potential, I’m thrilled to throw in 3 bonuses to give you extra support for kickstarting erotic transformation!
Get the solution to your sex problems!
✾ 8 Modules (Valued at $4000)
✾ Daily motivation via short pleasure videos for 8 Weeks (Valued at $400)
✾ On-Demand Video Lessons (valued at $2500)
✾ Supplemental PDFs and Other Resources (Valued at $500)
✾ Sex ed covering desire, arousal, orgasm, body issues, attraction issues, communication, pain, trauma, and more (Priceless)
✾ Bonuses (Valued at $1000)
✾ 20% Discount on One-on-One Coaching (Value goes up the more you use)
Total Value = $8,400+
Today's Price = $197
What makes this course unique?
The Pleasure Plan Process is Informed by my Bestselling Book
Here's what makes the process unique:
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Evidence-based methods that navigate hopelessness & fear;
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Rewriting through no-pressure art-making
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Creation of your own customized Pleasure Plan journal (starting from a blank book)
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Daily prompts to keep you sassy and on track
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Cutting-edge wisdom from 3 overlapping areas: women's sexuality, trauma recovery, and healthy relationships;
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Accessible movement/yoga/dance integrated into program;
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Program meets you where you are, regardless of partnership status, health, or history.
Still undecided?
Sensual Potential is right for you if...
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You're ready to be transformed.
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The time is right for you to see what’s possible for you.
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You know the value in having an experienced guide to lead you.
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You've been trying to access a better sex life/connection for a while now, but are feeling stuck.
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You've tired of feeling stuck!
Sensual Potential is NOT right for you if...
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You identify as Asexual (ACE) and/or you do not have an authentic desire to awaken your sexuality (this is a personal decision I highly respect)
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You only want to become more sexual to please a partner
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You’re expecting a miracle “cure” without doing any pleasure exercises
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You’d rather just blame your partner for what’s going on
I’m totally confident my approach will help you, so I’m offering a 100% Money-Back Guarantee. If in the first 14 days of signing up, you aren’t completely satisfied, contact us for a full refund.
*Please note: No refunds will be issued once a private session has been redeemed.
When you enroll today, you'll get immediate access to...
❀ 8 modules
❀ 8 Weeks of daily motivation, through super-short pleasure videos
❀ 20% off one-on-one coaching
❀ Core content
For just $197
Any Questions?
How much time will I need to take this course?
We are all pulled in many directions. That's why I made this course supportive yet flexible. Each week, we'll have a 90-minute Zoom call, which you're encouraged to attend, but we'll understand if you can't. The 8 modules can be gone through in 8 weeks, along with the group. But, you also have lifetime access, so can go back into content anytime you want! Each module asks for approximately 60 minutes of journaling plus pleasure exploration--in addition to the weekly calls. That's ideal. Obviously, the more time you put in, the more you'll get out of it. But even if you just dip your toe in, I've designed things so there will still be benefit!
What's the difference between what you're doing and therapy??
I'm a coach and not a psychotherapist. While therapy delves into past experiences, exploring reasons for behaviors and feelings, coaching is focused much more on setting goals and removing obstacles. If you feel you would be better served by a therapeutic relationship, you can take my course as you're going through therapy, or you can seek out therapy first, and then consider my course at a later point. This might be the case, for instance, if you've had sexual trauma and have never dealt with it therapeutically, or if there are issues in your partnership that are beyond the scope of this course.
Can I take this course if I don't have a partner?
Absolutely! Approximately half the people I work with begin our journey while not in relationship. The course is designed for you to connect more fully, and authentically, with your own desire, pleasure, and sensual potential. This is the bulk of our work. In some modules, we also explore techniques to use with partners. You can experiment with these techniques if you're dating, or store this knowledge for future erotic adventures.
I have a history of trauma, is it OK for me to take this program?
For the past 2 decades, I've worked with scores of trauma survivors, and I am one myself. It's important to know that my course will not delve into your past trauma. You will not be sharing details of traumatic events, or anything you wish to keep private. Many of my clients/students are survivors. That said, you really do need to feel ready to move forward sexually. Feeling ready often happens after someone has already done significant emotional and psychological healing. If you're not sure, please schedule a 30 min. call with me by emailing Laura@LauraZam.com.
My situation is really complicated. How do I know your methods will work for me?
We are all complicated in our own way, but I know what you mean! I felt that way too about my own life and the many obstacles I faced before I began my sexual healing. Here's what's important to know: the framework I provide helps you identify a goal, identify obstacle(s), and successfully navigate these obstacles for a lifetime of sensual development. Many times obstacles masquerade as hopeless complications, but they are really challenges that can be broken down and overcome! In this course, you'll also assert your new sexual self through communication skills and sustainable, sexy habits. If you feel that you might benefit from this kind of coaching model, then don't worry about complications! That said, if you are having trouble implementing the strategies I teach—because of past history, for instance—then, by all means, take advantage of my money-back guarantee (up to 14 days I'll give a refund if you haven't redeemed a private session). I can also help you find a sex therapist, who might be a better fit.
Do you offer private sessions outside this course?
I do! In fact, you'll get 20% off individual sessions, and coaching packages!